“I am a human being, not a human doing. Don’t equate your self-worth with how well you do things in life. You aren’t what you do. If you are what you do, then when you don’t…you aren’t.” Dr. Wayne Dyer
I’ll be honest I create “to do” lists and often times important items will make it on several lists. It’s as though, if I write it on every list, then it will miraculously get done, right? No, now it’s just glaring at me from another list. Ah but the great feeling of success when I actually complete it and get to cross it off five different lists. I’m not sure how you organize life at the end of the school year, but I am struggling.
I struggle to stay focused on the present and what is happening now. I find my mind racing to next year and trying to organize new initiatives and new expectations, while all the while aligning them with what we are already doing. I know I need to stay present and be reflective on this year and these scholars, but how? Days run into each other, moments fade and are wisped away by thoughts and doing.
I found a blog by Nancy Daley that helped me put this chaotic feeling of ending one year and starting another, into perspective. Have you ever heard of a To-Be List? Daley brings up an interesting point, if you measure your day by what you did or did not do, what happens on a not so good day? Do you toss and turn at night, as thoughts of what you did and did not do rustle through your head disrupting your sleep, keeping you awake? I do. I find it hard to simply be and block out what I did or did not complete.
Daley encourages you to find a quiet place at the end of the day and reflect on how the day went and questions that really matter. The questions might look like: How was your day? Were you loving and compassionate? Were you mindful? Did you reach out to support or offer kind words? She invites readers to improve the quality of tomorrow by: 1. Being more conscious of how you are living your life, not what you do or get done. 2. Prioritize your doing. 3. Write a to-be list for tomorrow.
Here is my to-be list for tomorrow:
be mindful of my actions
be supportive of scholars, staff and parents
be appreciative of the amazing people I get to be around
be aware of how others respond to my actions
What is on your to-be list?
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